Sometimes we sit down at mayroong tao na pumapasok sa isip natin, yet hindi natin malaman kung sino ba siya. Ang alam lang natin ay may nami-miss tayo o may hinahanap tayo. Ang alam lang natin life is not complete right now without that person. Kung hindi mo alam kung sino siya, don’t worry. Time will come at makikilala mo rin siya. And you will be glad that you waited for that person. And when you find him/her, alagaan mo siya. ‘Wag mo nang pakawalan. Dahil tandaan mo, you waited for him/her for so long. :)
Say no to the upcoming relationship.
So many things I should’ve told you, but I know it probably wouldn’t change a damn thing. I hate you for making me feel this way. Really. I am afraid of getting hurt so badly and I am unsure about the fck that’s happening now. I don’t know how to tell you all of this. But hey, I thought relationships were suppose to be more laughs than pain. I wish I knew how to stop you from bringing me down.
Feeling like everything is impossible but I stay anyways because I hope things will get better over time…
But please tell me that everything is okay. That it won’t hurt, and that I’m making the right decision.
I know she’s prettier, and she’s not as messed up as I am. It’s ok. I wouldn’t choose me either. :)
“Magkaroon ka ng tiwala sa taong mahal mo dahil hanggat may hinala lahat ng pinagsamahan niyo ay pwedeng mawala.”
“HINALA” - Dito talaga kadalasan nagsisimula yang mga tampuhan, galit, or break-up na yan eh. Akala niya kasi may tinatago ka. Minsan, ayaw mong pabuksan yung inbox mo, ayaw mong pinapakialaman niya yung mga maliliit na bagay tapos akala na niya may dapat syang malaman. Akala niya kung sino na yung kausap mo. Palagi kang kukulitin. Tapos pag tinanong ka niya kung sino yun sasabihin mong wala. Eh kasi wala naman talaga. Walang dapat ipakita dahil wala kang tinatago. Walang dapat basahin sa inbox/messages dahil wala naman syang mababasa. Dahil ang totoo, siya at siya rin lang naman laman ng inbox mo. Wala naman talaga yung kausap mo dahil naghihinala lang siya na may iba ka na. Minsan aaraw-arawin ka pa niyan katatanong, “sinong boys/girls nakausap mo?” Tapos kahit simpleng tao lang talaga na nagtanong lang sayo, paghihinalaan pa niya.
Pero ba’t nga ba siya naghihinala? Sabi nila, Iisa lang naman ang puno’t dulong rason, Yun ay yung takot siyang mawala ka dahil sobrang mahal at importante ka sa kaniya. Natatakot siya na baka tama yung paghihinala niya. Pero sa iba, hindi ko alam… May mga tao yata talagang, may gusto lang patunayan sa sarili. Ayaw lang nila na may hihigit sa kanila dahil kadalasan, mapride silang tao. Hindi dahil mahal na mahal at ayaw ka niyang mawala, kundi ayaw lang niya maramdaman na hindi siya magaling. Na pinagpalit siya.
(Pipilitin kong magpaka-positive. Oh well papel. )
Kakambal na salita ng tiwala ang hinala. Kung naghihinala ka,** ISIPIN MO MUNA, pinagkakatiwalaan mo ba talaga siya? Magagawa ba niya talaga yung mga bagay bagay na ikinakaduda mo?** Kadalasan, kung mahal mo talaga ang isang tao, Hindi ang sagot mo rito. At kung may tiwala ka talaga sa kanya at wala naman talagang kaduda-duda, hindi mo kailangan maghinala.
at TANDAAN: nakakasira daw sa relasyon ang laging naghihinala at halos wala ng tiwala.
Am I With The Right Person?
During a seminar, a woman asked,”How do I know if I am with the right person?” the author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?” In all seriousness, she answered “How do you know?” Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind replied the author.
Here’s the answer. Every relationship has a cycle…In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love! wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.
People in love sometimes say, “I was swept off my feet.” Picture the ex-pression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU. Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptom s of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfilment. Extramarital ! fulfilment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it. I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.
Because: The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to ! work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energ y. Andmost importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner). Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know and apply these laws, the results are predictable. Love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.
Remember this always:
GOD determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO!! <3
So now, are you with the RIGHT partner?
Gusto ko mabalik yung mga panahon na hindi mo matiis na hindi bisitahin yung TUMBLR ko kahit isang araw lang. :| :))
Don’t English Me I’m Not Graduation
- I am sick of tired
“Let’s call it tonight”